the bunker family

10 Year Anniversary GET-AWAY!

2011-09-03T19:31:00.000-07:00

Last year, as we were celebrating our 9 year anniversary, I turned to Jared and mentioned that NOW would be the time to start planning something awesome for our 10th anniversary. I mean, TEN is a big deal, right?! I knew it would take us a while to figure it out. So, we threw around ideas of Hawaii (too $$$), Mexico (too iffy) and finally decided a close, but pimp location would be the winner. Jared's buddy mentioned a place down in Del Mar called L'Auberge (never heard of it) and said it was the perfect spot. Boy, was he right! It was heaven. Only a quick 45 minute drive and we were a world away from our reality. The hotel was quaint, but really nice and very modern with a beach vibe. We both loved it.

I am still kinda depressed that it's over (and has been for over a month now) because there is nothing I love more than hanging out with Jared. I cannot get enough of that guy, honestly. And, there is something to be said about a man who's mind is not on his stressful job. Real life is so busy with the kids, work, church, etc. I am always missing Jared to some degree. Why can't we be independently wealthy so we can just be together all the time?? WHY? Anyway, I could just see the relaxation in Jared's eyes and it made me so happy. Most of all, I love that I got his undivided attention every second. No one interrupting us, no one to talk to but each other, no one needing anything from us... ahhhhh. It was lovely. We spent the days just relaxing on the beach, surfing (Jared that is), napping, eating great food, walking around the cute town, massages, eating some more... it all added up to a perfect celebration. Jared would even window shop with me and go into stores and look around. I mean, that is special, trust me!

I took a good amount of pictures, but they are really all very similar since it was just the two of us and we got kinda shy about asking people to take pix. So, lots of self-portraits (I love those, though, who are we kidding?). Most of all, great memories together and I can't wait to go back to Del Mar. I LOVE it there!

just arrived... quick change into beach attire and we're off!
Del Mar, CA... I love you!!!
self portrait #1.
on our walk to dinner. I love this town.
here's a funny fact: I LOVE watching Jared while he puts his surfboard away. It just requires a lot of flexing and what not and it's a good show! wink, wink
relaxing on the sand. Just don't get sick of that.
our hotel. It was fantastic.
at dinner we saw the most amazing sunset. It was so bright and gorgeous. Too bad I couldn't seem to get a clear picture of it. Valiant effort, though.

is it me, or is Jared smokin hot?
muah!
last picture before we left for home.:(
Yay! Aunt Melissa is still alive and so are the kids! What an awesome sister I have, eh? She is always willing to come and watch our kids for us and they get SOOOO excited when she comes. She could not be a better sister and friend and I am forever in debted to her for coming. You rule, Yis!

Introducing...

2011-07-26T14:59:00.000-07:00

Mr. and Mrs. Derek Bunker!

Last month Jared's youngest brother, Derek, married the very beautiful Vanessa Rothfels in the Newport Beach, CA Temple. It was a gorgeous day. Perfect weather, lots of family and friends and one HAPPY couple. We love Vanessa and Derek so much and we were all thrilled to witness their sealing and celebrate this day with them. I think one of my very favorite things to do is to go to a sealing in the temple. The Spirit is so strong and I am reminded of my own wedding and how truly lucky I am to be sealed forever to Jared. Derek and Vanessa were so sweet and emotional and it was awesome!
Here are just a few pix from that day...
Daddy and Row Boat
cousin Iris and Payton

Bunker sisters: Lauren, Whitney, Vanessa, Andrea, Me and Melanie

Me with the Stunning Bride
me and J. His eyesballs (seriously) are sunburnt from the surftrip he had just gotten home from the night before. Rough life!
this was in the morning while we were getting ready. Row is a cheeseball and I love it.
Dad helping Kai with his tie. I just love this picture.

some randoms I didn't post since I was on a blogging break ;)

2011-07-15T16:11:00.000-07:00

So, I've been trying to catch up a bit on my blogging and came across some cute pix from a couple months ago. Just some randoms, but didn't want to miss these...

cute girl
love this one of her playing
chubilicious
my girl, Laura!
I heart Row Boat.

and last but not least, Dallin and Payton. These two have been together since birth and are made for each other, really. They are the best of friends and I think someday they will be in love. Needless to say, me and Laura are sure to capture pictures for their wedding video... wink, wink.

can't you just see these framed at their reception?

10 years of wedded bliss!

2011-07-11T08:42:00.000-07:00

Last month we celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary. I can't tell you how much I love saying that! It is so wonderful to me to think how Jared and I have been together for over 10 years. I don't know how I scored such an amazing man to spend my life and eternity with, but I am oh so grateful. People say marriage is work, but not for me. Being Jared's wife is really the easiest thing in the world to me. He makes it easy by being pretty much the cat's meow ;). We are so lucky with our 3 awesome kids and life is just sweet as can be. I would rather hang out with him then any other human in the world and I never get enough of him. He is my best friend and I love that I can tell him anything and he sees what I am really trying to say. He knows what I'm going to say before I say it and it's hilarious. I love when he says it before me. He is the sexist man alive, really. I don't even think I'm biased on this one. He just is so handsome, it's silly! His looks are just the cherry on top, though. He is the greatest person, who is kind and generous, faithful and real. I can't wait for decades more with him and forever, too!

Laguna Hills Memorial Day Half Marathon...

2011-07-11T08:14:00.000-07:00

(I am soooo behind on blogging, so I think I'll just start here...)

SO, the ol' Laguna Hills 1/2 marathon arrived again and me and and a bunch of friends were game to do it. I am so late in posting this that my commentary might not be up to par, but that's ok. :)
I enlisted Jared and his bro, Ryan, to run it with me, too. That was a great idea cause it pushed me beyond what I thought I was capable of. I felt great the whole race except for that last dreaded mile. I seriously could not take a deep breathe and it was CRAZY! All my muscles were contracting in on my lungs and it was hard to keep up the pace, but I managed to dig deep and find some energy. I kept telling myself, "who cares if you barf all over yourself. Just keep going!" I was aiming for shedding just a minute off last years time (1:53) and I ended up coming in 14 mins faster at 1:39. I could not believe it! It was awesome. After we crossed the finish line I couldn't stop saying, "I am going to pass out. I am going to pass out!". I was only 1/2 there, I think.

me and Jared before the race. Just doing a little huggin and stretchin.
My girls: Babs, Brenna, Brooke, Sara, Me and Laura
It was Laura's first 1/2 and she rocked it. I was so proud of her I almost cried!
Brenna(who JUST had a baby 4 months earlier...amazing), Sara (who was in denial about running this and just came out and did it... no problem), Me (I ended up NOT passing out, just fyi) and Laura (the newbie who knocked it out of the park)

Me and J... nice and sweaty and ready for some Memorial Day grub!

Good times, good times.

gotta make one for yourself...

2011-05-20T19:49:00.000-07:00

I just saw this on a bestie's blog. Love it!

My Family from WiddlyTinks.com

Pretty P is FIVE!

2011-02-21T19:38:00.000-08:00

My girl is 5 years old and I could not love her any more then I do. Payton is truly one of the sweetest, funniest, girly, kind-hearted little gals in the world. She is independent and knows what she wants. She is full of love to share and has a million friends. She trusts everyone (kinda scary) and sees the good in everything and everyone. She yells "Mommy!!" in the morning when she sees me and runs to give me a big hug and a kiss. She can't handle if we are upset with her and it makes it hard for her to listen. I understand that cause I am like that, too (hard if you are the mom, though :)). She is an adoring little sister to Kai and a super fun big sister to Rowan. I love my Payton Noelle more than I can express and even writing this right now is making me well up. She is such a super girl. I am such a lucky lady to be her mom and I am so proud of her. Even better, I am certain that she will make me proud a million times over as she grows up and becomes an amazing woman. As much as I hate the idea of her growing up, I can't wait to witness all of the fantastic things she does with her life. She is just awesome!!!

Here is a bunch of pix that I just love from the past 5 years. Kinda random order, but it's hard to choose when you got a looker on your hands like Payton :). Enjoy...

Merry Christmas 2010!!!

2010-12-16T18:59:00.000-08:00

Well, I've not been the best at blogging lately and am a tad overwhelmed with the idea of "catching up". So, instead of trying I thought I'd just post our Christmas card for now. This past month has been super busy with...well, life in general. Hopefully, I will buckle down and record some soon! More than anything, we are healthy, happy and so grateful for EVERYTHING. I look at these pictures we took and I am incredibly taken back by how lucky I am to be the mother of these 3 and a wife to one amazing man. I feel so blessed! So grateful for this time of year and the chance to celebrate our Savior and remember what life is really all about. Merry Christmas!!! xo

Look who's . . .

2010-11-09T06:06:00.000-08:00

ONE TODAY!!!

It only seems like maybe a week since Rowan was born and looked like this...

This year has literally flown by and I cannot believe that our baby girl is ONE today! She is the sweetest little thing and I could not imagine our family without her. Here are some things about Rowan on her first birthday:

* she is very cuddly and loves to hug
* she started walking a few days ago, but still reverts to crawling a lot
* she is starting to get over baby food and just wants "big kid" food now
* LOVES her whole milk
* loves to wrestle with her siblings (not as scary since she's the third and I'm more relaxed, thank goodness)
* has 8 teeth
* gives us kisses when she wakes up and says "MUAH" like we do.
* is much taller and chubbier than an average one year old, I'm pretty sure
* can just chill in her stroller and be happy to go along for the ride
* still tries to sing by going "ahhhhh" if I am singing to her
* sleeps great- 6:30 pm-7 am ( or there abouts)
* thinks Kai and Payton are celebrities and only pays attention to them if they are in the room
* is very curious and gets into every single thing she can
* loves to unroll the t.p. in the bathroom. (we now lock the b/r door at all time) ;)
* slobbers A LOT
* is shy at first
* wants to be a kid sooo bad, it's silly
* says "cheese" when I try and take her picture (that just started this morning. Think she knows it's her b-day?)

Happy Birthday, Row Boat! We love you SO much and think you are the best baby girl EVER!!!

Kai turns 7!!!!!!

2010-08-25T09:12:00.000-07:00

On August 25th, this young man turned the big 7! I can't believe that he is 7, honestly. He is growing up so fast! Kai is one of the most amazing boys ever, btw (and I don't think I am biased at all, in fact). As Kai gets older it is so fun and amazing to see how he changes, evolves, matures, etc. I could not be more proud of him. He makes being a mom easy breezy! At 7 years of age, some highlights of Kai are:

*he is starting 2nd grade at Oak Grove Elementary School
*he's taking the bus for the first time (we're both a little nervous)
*he is an excellent help to me with his two younger sisters
*is neat and tidy
*loves to follow rules and do what is right
*tells on himself if he does something wrong (see above fact)
*has lots of friends
*loves legos
*loves sports (especially baseball at the moment)
*asks us to turn on ESPN if it's his turn to pick a show (which is funny since me and Jared don't really watch any sports normally)
*is a great swimmer and LOVES the pool
*isn't the biggest fan of the beach right now. It's "too sandy"! :)
*loves playing sports with his dad (especially catch)
*is super smart and makes learning look easy
*says "excuse me" when he wants my attention (well, most of the time)
*thinks his cousin Enoch is THE coolest person ALIVE
*talks a LOT. Sometimes an endless stream of talking occurs. One might say he gets that from me.
*is in the CTR 7 class and just finished memorizing the 13 Articles of Faith at church (click here to read them)
*will stop what he is doing to give me a hug and kiss.
*gets embarrassed if I kiss him in front of his friends, though, but will still let me kiss him on the cheek! (Jared told me that would happen, but I didn't believe him)
*says DUDE way too much (again, one might say he gets that from me)
*keeps a watchful eye out for cruisin' baby Rowan. He is the first one to pick up "chokables" and close doors to bathrooms, etc.
*kinda doesn't think the house could run without him.
*loves his family and tells us, too.
*Is my FAVORITE boy in the world!!!!!

We had a "boys only" pool party for Kai this year and it was tons of fun. He just loved playing with all his buds and having fun in the pool! Here are a bunch of pics from the day...

started the day off with a "ghetto" #7 chocolate chip pancake. That was harder to make then I thought it would be :).
Payton was so excited to be the FIRST to wish Kai a happy birthday.
Mayhem in the pool! There were a few people at the pool before the party started, but once they realized what was about to happen they all went home. Sorry Windsong residents, but thank you cause it was nice to have the pool all to ourselves!
Make a wish! This cake tasted fantastic, but I am not much for presentation. Good thing Kai only cares about the taste, right?!
chowing on cake and loving it!
buddies Travis and Connor
School pals Nick and Cooper
Cousin Enoch (aka Kai's hero), buddy Brian and Kai
Payton chillin' in her tube
loved how Spencer grabbed Kai for this pic. Good buds are the best!
Kai, Jonny and Drew (it was also Drew's 7th bday that day!)
me with my sweet 7 year old! I could not be a luckier mom to have this kid! He is THE best around!
the whole gang of boys. Such a cute group!
Kai had a huge pile of presents! Score!
tearing in...
after sleeping through the whole party (nice!), Rowan finally made an appearance

Jared had been in Boston for work the days right before Kai's bday. So, he bought Kai a special present there.
making sure it fits
Kai was super excited about the Boston Red Sox cap, glove, ball and bat Jared brought home from his business trip.
breaking in his new glove. Instant obsession!

Happy 7th, Kai! You are such a special kid and we could not love you more. I love you more than I could ever explain and am so so so thrilled to be your mom. xoxo

Bunker Branches 2010

2010-08-21T19:56:00.000-07:00

The Bunkers have an annual family reunion and it is always highly anticipated! Typically, we have traveled for a week long vacation, but this year, with conflicting schedules, jobs, kids, etc., we decided on a staycation. Andrea did an AMAZING job of putting together a super fun itinerary for all to enjoy. We had breakfast at the parents house every morning with a devotional (spiritual thought) given by an assigned family member (which many times turned out to be Jared's dad - Great job, too, Dad). We had daily outings to Legoland, Irvine Regional Park, our pool, San Clemente Beach, and a visit to the Mormon Battalion Museum (which I missed due to a tired baby). It was so fun and so great to be all together with Jared's family. I have said this a million times before, but I seriously scored in the in-law department. Jared's parents treat me like their very own and are incredible examples to me. And his (6) siblings are all amazing, kind, beautiful (inside and out) and so fun to be around (this is due to wonderful parents I am certain!). I love being a part of this Bunker family and look forward to many many more family reunions together. Here is just a sampling (and by sampling I mean A TON) of pictures from the BUNKER BRANCHES 2010 REUNION.

ok, this first picture is of the week before when we hit the town in honor of Andrea's birthday. This gorgeous girl is one of my favorite people ever. I always say that had I known her first I know we would've totally hung out (and then I would've made her set me up with her hot, little brother :)). I love her company and love celebrating her.

and now the reunion begins at Legoland...

Kai w/ Cousin Enoch
Aw, sigh!
Daddy and his littlest Bunker
me and my bathing beauties!
Jared did the honor of hanging out in the cabana so Rowan could sleep. Thank you, Jared!
my little family on our way out. Exhausted, but so happy!

the next day we were off to the Irvine Regional Park. This place is so great...
Even had a jumpy house which entertained the kids for about 5 hours...no kidding!
the fam in our "Bunker Branches 2010" t-shirts. Love em! (missing Lauren and family due to a baby in her belly that is going to born in 2 days, and Ryan)
cutest front row EVER! Avery, Payton, Kai & Owen

Pony rides? Yes, please!

San Clemente Beach came next. It was a gorgeous day!
I might blow this one up as a poster cause it's so awesome! Cousins Lucy (she is the one being held), Avery, Payton & Iris enjoying the view
Kai and Owen posing in the middle of some beach play

That following Monday, Kai did a week long camp called LEGO MATHOBOTIX with his cousins. He loved it!
Cousin Owen & Kai = cuties
They missed the point in this "robot battle" and Kai's reaction is classic Kai. Hilarious.
Kai at the end of a long week at Lego Mathobotix camp
had to add this one of Rowan looking up at Payton. So cute!
just love this picture of my sweet baby!

9 months = too fast!!

2010-08-09T15:06:00.000-07:00

(rowy sitting at Jared's desk in his office. So cute!)

I know I am growing older when 9 months seems like 9 minutes. How is Rowan already 9 months old????!! Maybe because I know she is my last baby or something, but I just can't stand how fast she is growing up! Truthfully, she is a superb baby and just an all around fantastic human being. She is SOOO happy and SO in love with life. Here are some 9 month highlights...

*she started crawling a couple weeks ago
*she started pulling herself up the next day and is trying to cruise now
*she LOVES baby food. Anything and everything...she'll eat it. She opens her mouth before the spoon is there. It's so cute!
*finally got her bottom teeth at 8 months old. Fav!
*thinks Payton is her BFF. And, she is!
*is down to 2 naps
*is still growing at rapid speed
*can hop on her bum and get places (but, usually resorts to old fashioned crawling techniques)
*loves her baby pool and will splash away for a good 45 minutes
*smiles so hard (with completely squinted eyes) when she sees me that it makes me die laughing and makes me forever grateful she's mine (I get teary about it, really)!
* has some thick platinum hair that has lots of body (maybe curls someday, but for now...the jury is out)
*has Jared's hair line, but still my eyes
*loves her daddy to death!
*whenever I sing to her she starts going, "Ahhhh" like she's singing along. I love it!
*is completely and utterly the sweetest thing alive!

Tons of Fun in the 'TO

2010-07-22T12:28:00.000-07:00

Well, that's SacramenTO for non-locals... :)

We had the chance to go to my home town of Sacramento a couple weeks ago and it was great! I hadn't been home for a while and with Jared at work all the time, I was really gun shy to go home with the kids by myself. Well, he had a couple of days off for the 4th and so we took the opportunity to head north. A weekend is never enough time to see all of my family (I'm one of 9) and so I decided to throw caution to the wind and stay a few extra days after Jared had to leave. It ended up working out fantastically. The kids slept great ( and with that you can do anything, really), the weather cooled off a tad (only low 90's for the most part), Grandma Linda and Papa Stan made sure all was well so I could run in the mornings (a sanity builder for sure), and we got to see all of my siblings except one of my brothers (sorry Todd and Gabe. We are so sad to not have seen you) and my mom (she's in Italy. Nice, huh?). We spent the week swimming a ton, having a sleep over at fun aunt Melanie's, girls night out w/ my sisters for Kristin's bday, evenings on the couch with yummy desserts prepared by my stepmom, relaxing and playing with cousins and enjoying home cooked meals w/ fresh veggies from my stepmoms amazing garden. It really was a great trip and I now have the confidence that I can handle the kids on my own. So, here's to more trips home and seeing my family more often. Now, sit back and enjoy MANY pictures from our trip...

Just after we arrived. Payton and Kai were immediately connected at the hip to Courtney and Conner
Jared swimming with Rowan for her first time in a pool! She loved it, of course.
bro in law, Carey, with twins Lauren and Madeline
sis in law, Raquel, and baby Rawson. We got to be there for his blessing, too, which was so special!
This is so funny and great. The kids loved jumping for me. Hilarious! I just love Payton's form here. It makes me laugh every time!
again, hilarious!
Kai, Rawson, Rowan, Conner, Madeline, Cosette, Lauren, Courtney, Payton
I got to see my oldest/closest friend, Camie, for just a short visit. She was off to Tahoe the day after we arrived, dang it! (I know, she is darling)
sitting by the pool w/ Jared, Rowan and Michelle
cousin Blaise with Payton (who thought the firecrackers were way too loud, too!)

My brothers, Matt and Andy, on the 4th. Andy had some firecrackers that were SO loud (I must be getting old). The best part was watching them crack up at lighting them in each others hands. I mean, does that ever get old??!
Nice!
insta best buds - Courtney, Kai, Conner and Payton
My sisters cute twins and Jared. I just thought this was a great shot!
Jared and Me on a hot Sactown day (geez, I love this guy!)
Rowan trying out the baby pool for the first time! LOVED IT!
my 3 awesome kids! Man, I love this picture!
Rowy already wants to be just like her Papa Stan!
lovin me some Yissa!!
Me and my Melanie Moo!
Happy Birthday to my sister Kristin on her 40th. I know, 40 never looked so good!!
Melanie, Michelle, Kristin, Me, Raquel, Melissa and Ivonna
Me with my rockin' sista, Kristin
Rowan w/ cousin Cosette. Just loungin'
Rowy w/ uncle Adam and Aunt Sandy
my brother Adam, Kai, my sis in law Sandy, Rowan, Me and Payton
cousin Matthew and Kai
cousin Will and Kai
Kai loved squeezing himself right in between Papa and Uncle Marc
cute Melanie and Me
me and my pops
Marc, Rowan, Cosette and Raquel
Grandma Linda with Rowy
Kai and Cos!

a Happy Father's Day...

2010-06-20T14:15:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day to my fantastic husband! You could not be any better at what you do. We love you soooo much!! Kai, Payton and Rowan are the luckiest kids around to call you Daddy! Thank you for being the best person we know!

the day Jared became a father for the first time. August 25, 2003-Kai Samuel Bunker joined our family
February 20, 2006 - Payton Noelle made Jared a father of 2!
And, finally, our cherry on top! Rowan Paige made his fatherhood complete on November 9, 2009

9 years and counting...

2010-06-17T07:33:00.000-07:00

Thanks for the easiest, most fantastic, fruitful, fun, loving, caring, romantic, great, wonderful years of my life, Jared! With every year life just gets better. You are my best friend and really the best person I've ever met! I love you!!!

7 months and OH so sweet...

2010-06-11T20:55:00.000-07:00

On the 9th Rowan turned 7 months old and I simply cannot believe how time flies. I feel like I just had her yesterday! She is completely and utterly the sweetest baby EVER! Some of her latest highlights are:
*She is quiet and observant (who wouldn't be with Kai and Payton to entertain you all day long). Then again, she can squeal and jabber on like a pro.
*She is finally starting to sit up without falling straight on her face and is already on her knees and rocking back and forth.
*She loves her veggies and cereal, and of course, her bottle.
*Her hair is coming in thicker now and I can't tell if it'll be curly or not. I can't tell you how I feel about that either. Wierd.
*She is in the 100 percentile for her height and weight. In other words, she excels at growing!
*She sleeps all night, naps great, and is very predictable and I just love that.
*She has awesome chubby thighs that act as my personal stress balls. Squeezing them makes me feel at ease :)!
*She is very squirmy and I know she'll keep me on my toes when she's on the move.
*She has the sweetest baby breathe. Is it weird that I love to smell her breathe? Should I admit that? It's so sweet and clean smelling and I love it.
*She is such a happy baby. Even if I have to wake her up from sleeping to get K or P from something, she just wakes up, looks at me, and is excited about where the day will go.
*Payton captivates her. When Payton is in the room she just stares at her and waits for Payton to speak. It's so sweet and makes me happy cause I LOVE my sisters and am thankful they have each other.
*She thinks Kai is the funniest person alive. No matter what he does to make her laugh...it works! It's effortless, really. I can tell he's her idol!
*She LOVES it when Jared and I are both talking/playing with her. She just lights up and it's sooooo cute! It's like she's thinking, "Now this is the life!"
*She loves life. I can just see it in her eyes. She is happy to be here and everyday I look at her and think "I am SO happy you are here, Rowan. I love you so much!"

Laguna Hills Memorial Day Half Marathon...

2010-06-02T07:54:00.000-07:00

Well, Memorial Day marked the beloved race day that me and some dear friends have been training for. We woke up bright and early and all met up for the Laguna Hills Memorial Day Half Marathon. I was a bit nervous, but felt optimistic about the whole thing. After all, I had amazing girls to inspire me and push me while we ran this thing. We had a goal of finishing before 2 hours, so it was on to "tackle this B@#%!" as one friend put it (you know who you are!). Anyhow, we started off fast, but it didn't seem like it since there is a herd of people running all around you. Love that, though, since you end up pushing yourself without really trying, right?! I suffered some side aches, which miraculously went away (that never happens), some calf cramps, some tummy cramping (you know what I mean) and all the other aches and pains that go along with running. But, all in all, I felt great until that last mile. Oh, that last mile. My body started to cave in on me and every second felt like an eternity, let me tell ya. The last few miles are on the trail, so no cheering crowd, so that was tough. Luckily the finish was full of people (namely BABS - I love ya) and you could hear people cheering you on and giving you props and that helped so much. I ended up finishing in 1:53 and was super proud of myself. I'm happy it's over and grateful for the awesome girls who trained with me and pushed me during. Nothing like a race to become closer with your friends.
all the girls before the race: Me, Melissa, Brooke, Julia, Sara, Rachel, Moka and Michelle
Just about at the finish line here. I'm only smiling cause my sweet friend, Babs, was there waiting to cheer us all on. Her face made me happy, but besides that I felt like death was near! :)
Barbara took this picture of these guys and aren't they awesome?!! Makes me misty!
Sara, Julia, Me and Rachel after the race. We were all feeling the pain...in a good way :)!
oops, a little sunny, but still love the pic!
Julia, Sara, Me (with my heart shaped sweat), Moka and Michelle

Dreams

2010-05-11T19:58:00.000-07:00

When I was little the thing I dreamt most about was being a mom. I hoped that one day I would be able to fill up a house with kids! (Well, I realize now that a house full to me is three!) Of course, I had no idea how hard it was to be a mom and all the work that it involves, but when I see these little faces and know that they are mine forever I feel BLESSED!!! Being the mom of Kai, Payton and Rowan is awesome. I find myself saying this a lot - I don't know how I got so lucky to get them, but my dreams have come true and my heart is full!

after a fun Saturday of swimming w/ cutie pie Kai
me and Pretty Payton at her Mother's Day party at Preschool.
my little Rowy girl! just scrumptious!

Legoland and D-land expeditions...

2010-04-22T16:34:00.000-07:00

This is a tad overdue, but we ventured to Legoland over Spring Break and it was awesome! Me and Jared have been pretty gun shy when it comes to going to theme parks because neither of us dig lines, heat, stress, spending mass amounts of cash...you get the drift! Anyway, we finally buckled and realized we were depriving our kids of their right to all of those previous things listed and with that we were off to Legoland. I will admit that within 10 minutes of being there I was regretting the decision and wished that we were anywhere else. But, I took a deep breathe, told Jared that if we were going to do this we were going to stay the entire day and wear this day OUT! And, I am proud to say that once I got the hang of it I loved Legoland. Of course, the kids were in heaven immediately and were having a blast the minute we got there. Kai insisted the first thing we do is see the MiniCIty.

This is the only pic I will post because I am sure no one else cares to see any of the MiniCIty, but Kai was over the moon about this little world built out of legos. I guess he can appreciate the talent behind the masterpieces. He was running around, hardly taking a breathe and telling us about each thing (like we couldn't see for ourselves...it was hilarious) and pointing out each amazing thing "built out of LEGOS!" He kept saying, "Look, Mom and Dad, a subway. That is made out of LEGOS!" and "Look, a bathroom (dying laughing at it). That is made of LEGOS!!" and "Oh, look, Mom, the TEMPLE. That is made out of LEGOS!" (Of course, this is not a Temple, but how cute that this church looks like a temple to Kai because it's so fancy!) It was soooo funny cause as he was pointing everything out and saying this same kind of thing, he pointed to a cactus and said, "Look, Mom, a cactus! Those are NOT made out of LEGOS!!!" You might have had to be there, but Jared and I were cracking up and now I say that to Jared at least once a day for a good giggle.
the "temple"

This little sharks mouth was cute and loved taking pictures of the kids in it. I had this bright idea that me and Jared should get in and get a pic taken, but Jared refused (to my disappointment) and I begged and he put his foot down. Dang it. So, I went around and took Kai with me. It was super tiny, though, and I barely squeezed in there with Kai. I was so glad Jared did not give into my pleading (I know he was embarrassed by the idea) cause it would've been a cherry on top for him if we had tried to squeeze the two of us in there and failed miserabley! I mean, we would've looked sooo lame. He would've been so irritated! :)
We finally finished with a long day at Legoland and headed over to the aquarium next door. Kai was equally excited about going there and I had to ask him, "Kai are the fish made out of LEGOS??" He just looked at me and said enthusiastically, "NO, they are REAL, Mom! AND, there is a real Lobster at the beginning of our journey!" I died laughing at that comment! Where does this kid come up with his sayings?

this fish was crazy. We were looking at this tank and it just followed us (mainly me) where ever we would stand and just stare at us. It was so bizarre!

It was a great trip and we all had so much fun. I can't wait to go again NEXT year! I'm sure proud of us...

on to the next adventure...
My sister, Kristin, came into town and went to Disneyland and so I got really ambitious and decided to join her. I have been wanting to get passes and so this was a great excuse to go for it. Payton had only been once as a baby and Kai had only been there as a little kid and didn't love it at all. So, I thought they were ready for it again and, boy, was I ever right! We had a blast. Laura and Benny joined us with their gang and we all enjoyed a lovely (semi-hot) day with only a medium/big crowd to handle.
me and my sista (ain't she cute? I love her)
Kai and Connor...best buddies
Payton and Dallin (she pronounces it DOLL-UN. It's cute) they are in love, I think!

this is a funky one of me(with my sleeves rolled to avoid farmer tan lines:), but thought I needed to show-off Rowy in all her awesomeness. Look at that body! Couldn't you just eat her up?

Just throwing this one in at the end. We bought Rowan a jumparoo/entertainment center and she LOVES it. It is so hysterical to watch her in it. She cannot stop bouncing and smiling and it's almost manic. I love it!

Easter fun...(warning-many pictures ahead)

2010-04-06T14:19:00.000-07:00

Is it me or are holidays creeping up and then passing by at rapid speed this year? Maybe it's because of the third child I just had and that I don't multi-task AT ALL. I just feel so unprepared and unready for the past few events. Even with that said, Easter was so fun this year. We had the most mellow weekend, just our little family, and it was so relaxing and nice. Maybe because I cooked nothing and had zero expectations of what should happen on this special day. We watched conference, dyed Easter eggs and played outside on Saturday. Sunday was the longest (in a great way) day I've had in a while. Time usually whizzes by me, but Sunday was slow and perfect. Kids woke up and checked out their baskets with sheer delight, we ALL watched conference (a miracle), had our little Easter Egg hunt, ate lunch, all took a nap (second miracle), made crepes for dinner, and watched a movie. Perfection! We missed seeing our extended family, but we loved being together with just us for one WHOLE day! Here are some pictures of the weekend. (Yes, I know I'm in a ton of these pics, but lately I've really wanted to capture me with my kids while I'm still "young". Maybe that 35th birthday around the corner has something to do with it! :))

the only "Easter Sunday best" picture I took. Since our Easter program was the week before Easter I forgot all about taking pictures in their outfits and that was sad for me to realize. I'm putting them back in their get-ups next week and will have to snap one then, I guess!

Awwwwwwww!
Hubba, hubba!

cutie pie Kai (yes, we buzzed his head and I LOVE it. I got teary cause I just loved seeing ALL of his face!)
me and the "older kids" as we like to call them
my little easter egg this year! Lovin her hoodie!
Kai and Payton loved their Easter baskets and woke up like it was Christmas morning for them.
getting ready for our little easter egg hunt. It was quaint with just us and the Wilson's. Short and sweet! :)
looks like this snail thinks it's part of the egg hunt, too. :)
payton and all her egg finds
kai and all his egg finds
love this squishy face
our little Easter family photo
daddy and the babes

Just looking over these pictures makes me SO thankful for my blessings. What a great holiday Easter is to remember our Savior and to realize all of the things we have because of him and his sacrifice! I honestly don't know how I got so lucky or why I deserve these people in my life, but I sure am overwhelmingly grateful!

ok, so she's the center of our universe...

2010-03-23T19:38:00.000-07:00

I really don't know how else to put it other than Rowan pretty much is the cherry on top of this family! She just keeps getting sweeter and sweeter and cuter and cuter. We all want to eat her right on up. Honestly, the thing I get asked the most these days from Kai and Payton is, "Mom, where's Rowan?" or "Mom, can I hold Rowan?" or "Mom, is there another baby as cute as Rowan in the world?" etc, etc... She really is the center of attention in this house and, frankly, she loves it!!
Today, I was going through pictures on my computer and comparing how the kids look different/the same at Rowan's age (to be posted soon) and I felt inspired to get the 'ol camera out and snap some shots of our little baby. She just rolled over for the first time a couple days ago and she's just trying out some cereal, too. So, I felt I needed to capture the moments. Enjoy...
so proud of herself
mommy and rowy

my handsome Kai
aren't sisters the best?!!!!

got em on the couch for a change of scenery

and, finally, a couple shots of her first bowl of cereal. The jury is out on if she likes it

Rowan is officially 4 months old!

2010-03-09T13:34:00.000-08:00

I mean, I might be biased, but isn't this the sweetest face you've ever laid eyes on (with the exception of your own kids, I'll give you that!)???

Today, Rowan is 4 months old (17 wks yesterday) and she could not be more delightful. I get so excited when I think of her, when I see her, when I hear her...you name it! She just might be the best baby in the world. NO, I mean that!

at 4 months, Rowan...

* loves to smile so big her face probably aches (yes, I know she isn't smiling in any of these pics. She can't get past the red light. It's too captivating, I guess!)
* isn't in any hurry to give me laugh, although I feel it's getting close to the surface. (I'm dying for it, btw)
* eats her hands like they taste like every delicious thing ever made
* sleeps like a rockstar. 7pm-7 am and only needed a little encouragement to do that
* is already in awe of her older brother and sister. She LOVES to watch them all day.
* doesn't complain. I don't ever fear writing this down cause if there is one thing I've learned is that my kids are who they are from the get-go!
* has my eyes
* smiles at thin air and I'm going to say that she sees all the angels that are around us.
* is about the size of a 5 month old, at least. Tall and at a fighting weight (her check-up is tomorrow, so we'll see)
* kicks like crazy when you talk to her. I mean, she is active!! She reminds of Kai in this way. Mark my words in a couple of years when I'm at the park and am chasing her around everywhere!!!
* has such a sweet disposition. I can't wait to see how this little girl grows up.
* is the perfect addition to our family and makes us SOOOO happy!

so cute

2010-02-27T12:05:00.000-08:00

SO, lately I always have a bowl of hershey kisses on the counter. It's the kids favorite treat to have after meals and I think there are worse things to give your kids then a couple hershey kisses, right? SO, I feel pretty good about it! ;)

Anyhow, Payton has a cute little lisp and sometimes mixes up her phrasing (which I love) and I can translate so quickly that it almost doesn't even register how funny some things she says really are. Well, I realized, when listening closer, that when she asks for a hershey kiss she actual says,

"Please, can I have a Juicy Kiss please?"

I think it goes without saying that I LOVE that she says that!

Happy Birthday Payton!!!

2010-02-20T14:08:00.000-08:00

Today is Payton's 4th birthday! Where has the time gone? I can't believe that she is a) not my baby anymore, and b) she is not A baby anymore. How does this...

turn into this????

It never ceases to amaze me how we grow these tiny humans, they enter the world so helpless and small and then proceed to grow into talking, walking, opinionated, playful, social PEOPLE!!! It's a miracle! And, Payton IS one amazing little girl. She is so loving and free spirited. She is constantly telling me how much she loves her brother, her sister, me, her dad, her special friends, so on and so on. She is a total girl, but loves anything her brother plays with, too. She loves to go to primary and school and is one smart little thing. I absolutely love watching her do anything. I find myself just staring at her sometimes and thinking, "Man, this girl is just adorable and she's ALL MINE!!!" I can't wait to see what she will do next and how she will grow up. I mean, I hate the thought of her growing up and what not, but I can seriously make myself cry with pride when I think of her as a young woman and all she will do with her life. She is a bright light in the world and we love her completely!! Happy Birthday Payton. You are a gem in every way!!

Happy Birthday, Baby!

2010-01-20T08:12:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was Jared's 31st Birthday! He doesn't read this blog ever, so he won't be embarrassed about all the gushing I'm about to do. (Don't worry, I say it all to his face) I know this isn't original, but here are 31 things I LOVE about my man ( & that you may or may not know about him) . . .

1. he is HOT and getting HOTTER as he ages (Yeah for me!)
2. he is incredibly kind hearted
3. he is a great surfer (although he'll never admit that) and looks AMAZING in a wetsuit. Hubba, hubba
4. he is humble and never will admit that he is good at something
5. he loves me. I mean, really loves me
6. he is really organized and fantastic at organizing everything around him (have you seen our garage for crying out loud?)
7. he calls Kai "Son" whenever he speaks to him
8. he has a really nice bum. I guess I am a butt girl! Who knew?
9. he thinks I'm funny and I just love it when people think I'm funny
10. I have never ever ever caught him looking at another girl. Never! I mean, I have to point out when I think a girl is pretty and he won't even acknowledge it.
11. he only has eyes for me (see #10)
12. his children think he is the smartest, strongest man ALIVE!(Quote from Kai to a friend,"Hey, my Dad is way stronger than your Dad. He's the strongest man in the world!"
13. he is 3.5 years younger then me, but SOO much wiser and more mature. I love it!
14. he is soooo smart. He, of course, would never admit that (see #4),but he knows pretty much everything!
15. although he is very neat and organized, he always leaves drawers and cupboards wide open. I am sure he has his reasons, but it's funny!
16. he is a wonderful role model. He does what is right, always, but isn't self-righteous about it.
17. he makes me want to be a better person, mother, wife, friend, so on and so on
18. he is constant in who he is and what he stands for. You can ALWAYS count on him!
19. he despises Mariah Carey or any sort of love song, but will listen to them if I'm in the car (cause I love them). But, if ever he takes my car somewhere the cd is turned off and the radio is on some classic rock when I get back in.
20. his favorite band is "THE CLASH". I know, whaaaaT???!
21. I can only listen to about 2 albums on his ipod (which has a million on them)...Cat Stevens and Grateful Dead. I think it's so sexy, though, that he loves such cool music.
22. Whenever I get into his car and he turns on his ipod...he immediately puts it to Cat Stevens or Grateful Dead! :)
23. He has never raised his voice at me.
24. he is always gentle and loving when he disagrees
25. he likes vanilla more than chocolate, but strawberry wins most of the time
26. he can eat a TON. His family hands them all their left overs so he can polish it off.
27. he will rub or tickle my back whenever I ask
28. he really cares about my feelings and puts them first. When I am bothered or mad he always listens and tries to understand where I am coming from.
29. he folds the laundry because he knows I hate to do it.
30. once I mentioned that I wished making the bed wasn't my job and he's been doing it everyday since (that was about a year ago)
31. after more than 9 years together, he still wants me over anyone else in the world to hang out with. How lucky am I??!!

Well, there are a million more things I could list. Jared is one of a kind and a truly remarkable person. I am his #1 fan and I don't even think I'm biased. He's just so super!!! Happy Birthday to my one and only!!!

A little look-see...

2010-01-15T19:54:00.000-08:00

Now that Rowan is starting to get "her look" I wanted to compare some of her, Kai and Payton all at the same age (or pretty dang close). I know babies can vary so much week to week in the first few months, so these are all within a few days of the same age. I've always thought that Kai and Payton looked related, but had their own look completely. And, before Rowan was here I wondered, "Will she be a mix of the two like so many 3rd kids are?" Well, the results are in and for me it's a big YES! She has Payton cheeks and hair (more of it, though) and Kai's nose (a girl version, of course) and his coloring (WHITE). I'd love to hear an outsiders point of view, though. Whatta think???!!!!

Here is Baby Kai (as we always called him) at approx. 9 weeks

(please excuse the yellow duck onsie. I don't know what I was thinking!)

Here is Baby Payton at the same age

And, finally, here is our Rowan at 9 weeks respectively

Tell me what you think?

The past month...

2009-12-05T10:31:00.000-08:00

has really flown by!

We are loving our new little addition to the fam. Rowan is such a good baby (with, of course, baby tendencies to cry, poop, and need things at unruly times) and we are so so happy to have her here! The kids are adjusting really well, too, thank goodness. Payton has her moments, but, being a girl is tough sometimes and her emotions are right out in front these days. I am trying to just love her through it, but you know how it goes...

Most of these pics need no introduction. Just randoms of the past month. I'm trying not to let time get past me and forget to take pictures of the kids. I swear I had about 2,000 pictures taken of Kai in his first month of life (being my first and all) and just as many of Payton (being my first GIRL and all) and I'll just kick myself if Rowan has only 5. So, wish me luck on that one!

Smmmoochhh!
Kai wants to hold Rowan (or Rowey, as he calls her) all the time!
I could look into those eyes all day long
Rowan after her first official bath (in her tub). Love that little face!
Rowan supervising Jared's work
how sweet are they!?

Here's just a few of Thanksgiving day. We ate at the club in Marbella (where J's parents live) and it was PERFECTION!

jared and his dad
me and Andrea
me and my girl
Jared's brothers, Ryan and Derek, on Thanksgiving
Kai and his cousin, Avery

SHE'S HERE...and we could not be more thrilled!

2009-11-14T17:10:00.000-08:00

On November 9, 2009 at 8:12 am, little Rowan Paige Bunker came into the world and into our lives! We have had a fantastic first week with her and words cannot describe the love I have for this little one! It all started at 4 pm on Sunday, the 8th, when I went into the hospital to get the "cervix pill" so that when I came in on Monday morning to be induced it would go smoothly. Well, I guess that pill was all I needed to get the ball rolling. By 10:15 pm (after 2 1/2 hours of walking around the l & d floor) I had dialated to a 2.5 and contractions were every minute to every 30 seconds. In fact, they just would not let up! They WERE going to send me home (to which I was prepared to cry and beg not to happen), but when monitoring the baby's heartbeat they were concerned about some dips and admitted me. Not only did I not even need pitocin, the nurse gave me a shot to slow my contractions down! So, without further ado, I asked for my epidural cause I was HURTIN'!!! My sister was with me ( cause she is totally awesome and flew down to see her newest niece enter the world) and Jared was still at home with the kids since we didn't really think I'd be there to stay that day. Once I was admitted, Jared was on his way and I could not have been happier to see him. Well, he did walk in at the same time as the anestiologist, so it's fair to say that it was a toss up on who I was more relieved to see walk through that door! So, by midnight I was sitting pretty and loving life. I was ready to watch some t.v. and chit chat the night away. Of course, Jared and my sister, Kristin, were dying to go to sleep. I eventually got some rest (maybe 2 hours) and by 7 am I was 6 cm and Dr. Thein arrived to break my water. He came back 45 minutes later and I was fully dialated and ready to push. With only 4 contractions, Rowan Paige was out and screaming her little guts out! Dr. Thein is the best doctor in the world and was amazing in every way. He was such a cheerleader. It was such a light-hearted, easy delivery and I will forever hold that experience close to my heart! She is perfect and beautiful and we are so in-love! We feel so so so blessed!

about to start pushing. Yes, I have a very strong epidural in place! Can you tell?
Our first picture with our new baby Rowan Paige
I'm ready for my close-up!

8 days early and still a good size.
A big kiss for the man that made it all possible! :)
They let Jared give Rowan her first bath.

my sister, Kristin, flew down just to see Rowan be born! AND, she cut the cord!!
my first of many dt. pepsi's
all wrapped up and all mine!
love the yawning face

Dr. Thein. Probably the best ob/gyn around. IF you need his number I'd be happy to give it to you. I've had 3 different doctors with all my kids and he is BY FAR the best around!
I took a self portrait like this with Payton and it's one of my favs. Now I have one with Rowan, too. Love those!
Daddy's girl already

Kai meeting his sister for the first time. He was so excited and proud!
Payton is such a little mommy to Rowan. She's never looked so grown up to me!
My 3 babes! What I've always wanted in life and now I have them!
my daughters...I love saying that :)
Big brother, Kai! He's so in love it's silly!
Big sister, Payton!
Kai wanted to show Rowan the pictures he drew for her.
Baby Rowan so cozy and warm. We love her!!!

Ooodles of Halloween Fun (and the pictures to go with it)!

2009-11-02T17:52:00.000-08:00

Well, it's been a fun Halloween week and we had a blast. It all started with our Trunk or Treat, Pumpkin Patch outing and finally Halloween night itself! All in all, it was a total success! The kids loved dressing up (each time) and they really scored on the candy! What more can you ask for. I have to admit that I'm glad it's over! I've been saying for a while now that Halloween can't come fast enough cause that means that this baby is a week away from joining our family! So, a great week and looking forward to the future!

Kai ready for the Ward trunk or treat. The make-up lasted about 5 minutes. He asked me to clean it off right when we got there. He thought everyone was "staring at him"!
Payton all ready for our Ward trunk or treat
Dallin Ek and Payton (this might be on their wedding video)
my cutie pie Kai
me and my babies!
I love this picture! These kids just melt my heart!
Payton lovin' her some goats
The kids loved these picture opps.

Daddy finally arrived after sitting in rush hour traffic!
Kai won this little thing. He was so proud!
Payton on her pony ride!
at Kai's request, Jared and I posed for this one. Kai took it, too. It was pretty funny!
Getting ready to head out on the town to get some candy!
the cutest Flapper EVER!!!
Payton getting her trick or treat on!
Kai the ghost
A full moon on Halloween! Can't ask for better!
Peyton Roney and Payton
Ella Roney, Kai, Madison Roney
Taylor Wilson with Kai
The family after we were done getting tons of candy! YUM!
38 weeks and counting. Getting induced at 39, so the home stretch has officially arrived

Baby Shower for Rowan...

2009-10-01T13:48:00.000-07:00

Last night was my baby shower for little Rowan Paige! It was so fantastic in every way and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to be surrounded by friends like these. Brooke and Elizabeth put together such a darling little ice cream parlor for the food and it was to die for. Homemade tart frozen yogurt with all the favorite toppings. I was in heaven. Laura made some scrumptious mini cupcakes with strawberry/whip cream filling (yes, please) and there was candy by the jar full! I'm still thinking of it the next day and how I should've eaten MORE! All of these beautiful girls brought me beautiful gifts galore and I was overwhelmed by all of the generosity and talent. How did I get so lucky??!! No kidding, I am humbled today by how kind everyone was to me. It makes me misty thinking of it. Rowan is going to be one lucky baby to be sporting all of her new threads and blankets. I seriously got the best stuff and couldn't be more stoked.

the hostesses with the mostess...Elizabeth and Brooke
Laura and divine cupcakes!
The cute table of treats. Notice the cute banner Brooke made. Love it! I can't wait to put that up in Rowans room.
Patience, Kristen, me and Becky!
Jill and I
Abi, baby Beckett (Melissa's baby), Megan, and Melissa
Moka, Julia, Kelsey
Pam and Babs
Marcy, Brenna, Amanda
Opening my awesome gifts! I was seriously sweating from all the excitement of the attention, gifts, etc. I was making Patience fan me!

Me with the other pregos at the party (in order of due dates, too) Becky-Jan, Me-early Nov, Marie-middle Oct., Moka-next week!( missing is Kelsey -20wks. Please refer back to prior pic of her. She's not showing yet, though :)! )
just being creative
the whole party (minus a couple who had to leave early...we missed you). Yes, these girls are gorgeous and Yes, it does look like I'm attacking Elizabeth with my huge belly. Can you say bad angle? Shhh, I tell myself that so I don't freak out!
Laura, me, Katie
Laura Lou and me

Thank you, thank you, thank you to all who came. I love you girls so much and my heart is full! Truly a great night that I will forever remember! xo

Kai is a FIRST GRADER!

2009-09-10T18:14:00.000-07:00

Well, if official...I'm a mom with a full-on KID now! Kai started 1st grade on Tuesday and it was very exciting for all of us. I seriously cannot believe that my little baby boy is in FIRST GRADE! Where has the time gone? He looks so grown-up (especially with short hair which I'm never growing out again cause I love it) and he seems way taller now, too. Anyhow, his first day was great. He said it was really long, cause it was, but that he like it and had fun. Each day he loves it more, too. He is such an observant little boy and I think now that he is getting his footing in the "big kid part of school" he is so happy! I could not be more proud of Kai. He loves to learn and he loves school (he gets that from Jared). Now I just have to get used to the whole process of dropping off, picking up, car lines, etc, etc. I think first grade might be more overwhelming for me than Kai.
I just love watching Kai grow and become an amazing little guy. It brings me to tears at times. I am just so so proud of him!!

outside his classroom
Kai and bud from Kindergarten, Connor Hayden
his teacher, Mrs. Newman. Love her!!!
me and Kai waiting in the line on the first day. It was a madhouse with every mom not wanting to leave. So sweet!

Happy 6th Birthday, Cutie Pie Kai

2009-08-25T14:21:00.001-07:00

How did this boy get so big???

Today is Kai's 6th birthday and I cannot believe it! He has really grown up alot in the past year and is about to start 1st grade. He is very talkative, articulate, sensitive, caring, playful, smart, kind and an amazing big brother! We could not be more proud or more excited that he is ours!! I get kinda emotional just thinking about the past 6 years and all we've gone through together. I was trying to explain to Kai that before he was born I wasn't even a mommy yet. He made that dream come true. He just looked at me with his big eyes and said, "Well, what is meant to be...happens!" I kinda laughed, cause while that is true it was kinda random...which is so Kai!! Well, here is a little trip down memory lane. Sorry, there are a lot of pictures cause it's hard to choose a few out of the 4000 I've taken since he was born!

Mr. Magoo at a few days old. In the nicest way possible, he did resemble Mr. Magoo...

Curly Kai (his nickname back then) rounding his 1st birthday
One of my all time favs!!!

8.25.04 - Mr. Kai is one

8.25.05 - the big #2

Kai and Payton meet for the first time! One of my proudest moments. I knew right then what kind of big brother he'd be to her. They are great friends!
8.25.06 Kai and Connor Ek at his pool birthday bash

8.25.07 - Me and Kai at his 4th birthday. We had 10 little boys over and that was so fun. And, so tiring!

8.25.08 - Kai turned 5 and we took just a few other boys to Boomers for bowling and mini golf. Lots of fun that day.

these last two were taken last Christmas. I can't believe it's already been almost a year since then. He seems so much older even from then.

(this morning...Payton wishing Kai a happy b-day)
Kai, you are the greatest little boy a Mom could ever hope for. I just love you with all my heart. Thank you for being who you are and for being my baby boy! I could not have gotten luckier...not one bit! Happy 6th, Bubb! We love you SOOOO much!

Finally hitting the beach...

2009-08-10T13:17:00.000-07:00

So, I LOVE the beach, but I get a little gun shy when summer rolls around...bringing crowds, more heat, and no parking. Needless to say, since summer started I think we've only been to the beach one other time. The pool has just been so much easier and less hassle for me and the kids. Well, Saturday we went to Emerald Bay and it was HEAVEN!! No crowds, great parking and the weather was super mild (being prego I get nervous about my tolerance for the heat). It was such a great day with friends and, most of all, Jared was there (aren't Saturdays the best? )!!! The kids had a blast and so did Jared and I! I couldn't have asked for a better beach outing!

Peyton & Payton
Kai showing off his clam shells. He rounded up a whole bucket, only to be dumped before we left! Good work ethic, though, buddy!
Kai and Daddy! Love this one!

Tried to get a shirtless pic with the guy, but he wasn't having it. Dang it!
Our little fam...
Couldn't get the kids to look up at me for this one. The sun was just "too bright Mommy!!!"
Jared going out for some boogie boarding. Sexy back, Babe!
Some of the kids. Madison made a mermaid fin for Payton and she sat there in it for like an hour. She is into all things girly, princess-like, what have you! It was pretty cute!

Can't believe this little man is going to be 6 in a couple weeks. He just gets better with age, I tell ya! He is my favorite little boy in the whole world!!! (and always will be since after this next baby we are out of the baby-making biz)

the baby bump has arrived!

2009-07-25T11:47:00.000-07:00

quickly approaching 24 weeks...

one with the ibooth camera. Gotta love that thing!

So, here is a couple shots of the ever growing belly! It took a while to look like a baby and not too many treats, but I think it's fair to say that this baby is getting bigger by the day! Just in the past week there is no hesitation from strangers on whether or not I'm pregnant or not. People just come right out and ask me when and what I'm having! I have admit this is a relief cause that in between stage is no fun at all!! I think I'm entering my favorite phase of pregnancy...24- about 34 wks. I hope this next 4 months go by fast...or maybe not. I still can't decide! What do you think? Am I in for it, or what??!

The 4th of July festivities...

2009-07-06T16:28:00.001-07:00

What a fun day we had, too. It was pretty much none stop and we wouldn't have it any other way. Well, I did get kinda pooped by 7pm, but what else is new? Anyhow, the day went like this...
We all went swimming in the morning for a bit and it was nice and toasty right off the bat. No marine layer in sight ( yes, we all got kinda red, too, because of it). Took the kids home, feed them lunch and put them "away" for naps and quiet time. Jared and I got ready for the rest of the day, woke the kids up and we were off to Ladera Ranch for a BBQ dinner and fireworks. Andrea and Brian hosted a fabulous evening at their house with yummy food and treats. The kids played super hard with their cousins, but STILL wanted to stay up for the fireworks. So, even though I tried to talk Kai out of it, we were off to the Ladera Firework show. It was great and I'm glad we stayed. The kids were totally beat and we all had a great holiday! I hope everyone else had a great day, too. Have I mentioned how much I love summer?

Payton and Reesie!!

Payton w/ her baby cousin Iris

cousin Collin Jude Woffinden...super cutie pie!!

The Fam enjoying the show. Well, Payton was scared to death, but the rest of us loved it!

These faces. . .

2009-07-02T08:02:00.000-07:00

are my very favorite things to look at!

I love when Payton first wakes up from her nap and her hair is all in her face and crazy. She looks like such a big girl now, I can't believe it!
Taking these pictures reminded me of when I was growing up and my mom used to always want to take my picture...just standing there in the family room against the wall or something. I thought it was such a waste of time then, but now I see where she was coming from. You just love your kids faces so much and want to capture them whenever you can, right?!
Now, Kai's turn. He fought me a little more on just standing there for a picture. But, in the end, he's a good boy and does what his Mommy asks him. Love that!
Common picture face for Kai right now. He thinks it's really funny to close his eyes so when I check the view finder I say, "Kai, open your eyes!" He gets a real kick out of it.
These two are such great friends (with moments of hostility, of course). Kai loves taking care of Payton and she just thinks he is the greatest kid around! I'm so grateful!

Summer has begun...officially!!

2009-06-28T15:04:00.001-07:00

Well, Summer has finally arrived here at the Bunker household. Kai and Payton are in the middle of their swim lessons at the Laguna Beach Community pool and they are loving it. We are so lucky to have a bunch of friends + kids also taking the same swim classes. So, it's tons of fun for the moms and kiddos alike. After swim class we have been heading to the beach or pool and it has been fantastic. With all the different schedules during the school year, it's just great to have time with friends without worrying about picking kids up from school, etc. It's only been one week of summer, so far, but it has been so great! I am so looking forward to the rest of the summer playing and having fun with my kids and our friends!
(I must give a shout out to Laura who is away in Baltimore right now for 3 more weeks. Fun isn't ever complete without you around, so don't think for a second we weren't wishing you were here! :))

Payton thinks these swim lessons are the best thing that ever happened to her!
Kai kicking his way the whole length of the pool! WOW!
"Smile, Kai" or just show me your shovel... which ever works!
Payton with her pals Reese and Peyton
Awwww! Aren't they sweet!

the BEST 8 years of my life!!

2009-06-16T08:27:00.000-07:00

(our wedding day - 6.16.01)

Today is my 8th wedding anniversary with my hunk o' burnin' love, Jared! I can't even believe it's already been 8 years, to be honest. It has really flown by so fast. Now, 8 years later, I'm all grown up and more in love than ever with 2 kids and one on the way. I have to honestly say that as a little girl this is what I always hoped my life would be. I married the absolutely most perfect man who treats me fantastically and loves our kids with all his heart. He works hard, tries to get some play in (he deserves so much more) and does his VERY best in all he is called to do at church. I want to be just like him!

I remember our first date. IT was awesome, obviously! After I walked in the door, I called my friend, Hillary (who set us up), and told her that I was going to marry him. I totally knew it, no joke! I wasn't about to let the hottest, most amazing guy I'd ever met get away. SO, I proceeded to sprinkle him with my charm (wink, wink) and 5 months later we were engaged! I know I'm the luckiest girl ever to be married to Jared. He just gets better and better as the years go by. I can't wait to rack up a thousand more and on into forever! Happy 8th, Babe! You are my favorite thing in the world!! I love you!

Guess what?!

2009-05-27T19:18:00.000-07:00

Well, it's about time I made it "official". I know I've gone on and on about how maybe I can't handle the 2 kids I already have and what not. I think deep down I always knew I would try for a third. Well, lo and behold it looks like baby bunker #3 is on it's way. I have really slacked in the calling and breaking the news department with this pregnancy. So sorry about that for those who are far away. Don't get me wrong, I couldn't be more excited about a 3rd baby. I'm just lazy, I guess. And tired w/ all the maddness of the two kids I already have. Bless their hearts, they are the best kids a mom could ask for! I have had a couple of scares with this pregnancy, too, which have made me gun shy with making big annoucements and all. But, everything looks great and I think the cat deserves to come out of the bag!!

I already went to the early ultrasound place in Costa Mesa and it looks like another girl!! I am thrilled that Payton will have a sister. Kai isn't buying it for a second and is convinced that a baby brother is on his way to make the final count: boys-3 & girls -2. The thought that girls will out number boys in this house is a bit more than he can handle. I'm going to have to get him a boy goldfish, I guess! :)

So, the new addition is scheduled to arrive on or about November 17th! We can't wait and we feel so lucky to be expecting our third babe!

Easter Sunday!

2009-04-14T16:55:00.000-07:00

I so want to post a bunch of cute pictures from our Spring Break, but right now the kids are going nuts and not "letting" me hang out at the computer. So, for now here are just a few of my favs from Easter Sunday. The kids looked so bright and cheery in their Easter get-ups. I was in-love. More to come...

This last one is funny because I was trying to take a self-timer photo of me with the kids (Jared had already left for church to prepare the Sacrament). The kids were being super agreeable, to my surprise, too. They were letting me try over and over again. Well, one of the times I got up to look at the picture and I said, "Oh man, Kai your eyes are closed!" He started to die laughing and said,"I know, Mommy, it was a joke! I closed my eyes to be funny!! Isn't that funny?" Of course, that was pretty much the only one where Payton was looking AND smiling and I didn't look completely lame. Anyhow, that's how it goes. Kai, you are very funny! :)

Cuteness!!!

2009-03-26T18:55:00.000-07:00

The other day when I picked up Payton from school I was showering her with kisses in the car. It was one of those things...you know, you start and you can't stop yourself cause they are just so darn adorable. Anyhow, after I finished, Payton looked at me and said:

"Mommy, you're my friend! And, I love my friends!"

I giggled and my heart was full! I tell ya, when that girl is sweet, she is SWEET!!! She is really coming up with her own thoughts and sayings these days and I'm loving it. She's turning into a big girl now. How time is flying by!

Now on to Kai...

A week ago or so, Kai gave my cell phone number to one of his buddies at school (I had him memorize it in case he ever got lost). Well, the past few days his friend has been calling to "tell Kai something he forgot to tell him before they left school". Well, today Kai was at a play date when this friend called, so I said Kai would call him back later. So, when Kai got home I gave him the phone and he called back. He had to leave a message on their machine and here's how it went:

beep
"Hi Alec, I'm calling you back to see what you wanted to ask me. This is Kai. I'm calling. So, we're not home right now,but leave us message and we'll call you right back! Thanks a lot...BYE!"

I started laughing to myself because if you've ever called our house, then you've gotten our machine (wink). Kai said exactly what I'm saying on our machine in EXACTLY the same tone and way that I say it. It was super cute and very funny!

Aloha!!!

2009-03-10T14:49:00.001-07:00

Well, I just got back from a long weekend in Hawaii with Jared. And, let me tell ya...it was fantastic!!! Jared had to go to Oahu for work and he came up with this bright idea that I come and join him for the last bit. GENIUS!!! So, we were lucky enough to enlist my wonderful sister, Melissa, to come down and watch the kiddos. She was amazing with them and they had such a great time with her. I was totally able to relax and enjoy the trip knowing my kids were in such capable and loving hands, too. I can't even begin to explain how much that means. Anyhow, it was a much needed, much enjoyed trip, too. It rained 2 of the days I was there (but, who cares if you are in Hawaii, right?) and it was all sunshine on the last day. SO, of course, I laid out for like 4 hrs on that day. I thought, "I better fry myself if this is all I'm getting!!" Luckily, I didn't burn too bad...hello...I put on sunscreen!! :) I'm sad that it ended, but I really missed my kids, so it's great to be home. I do long for another getaway w/ Jared, though. Thanks, babe, for making it happen. You are a stud!!
Here are some pics of our romantic weekend getaway.

In the walkway of our hotel. Groovy, eh? (no, I'm not pregnant. Although, I do look like it here! Please let that be the dress!)

Too shy to ask strangers to take a photo for us, we just took one of each other...

How crazy is this shot. It looks like I was inserted into it. I put the camera on "night scene" and this is what happened!I guess by "night scene" it means "what you would see if you were drunk"! Nice!

We ate at ROY'S one night and got their famous chocolate souffle! It's amazing. We obliterated it!!

Self portrait...love em!

HUBBA, HUBBA!!

enjoying my beverage after laying out for a LONG time. Man, that tasted good!

the happy couple on our last day. Don't we look so relaxed and refreshed? :) Oh, and more in love than ever???? wink, wink

couldn't keep my hands off this guy! I love knowing that after all this time I still absolutely LOVE being with him. Being in Hawaii didn't hurt either!

a 'kinda' sunset. Was a bit too cloudy, though! Still beautiful...

Last, but not least, my sister Melissa! Thanks, lady, for being so great all the time! We love you and miss you already!!!

I can't believe she is already 3!

2009-02-23T08:48:00.000-08:00

2.20.09

I can't even tell you how fast this past 3 years have been. It seems like just yesterday that Payton was born. Well, a few days ago we had a little Hello Kitty Party for her and it was a blast. We had some of her favorite gal pals and her favorite little man over to bring in the big day. Not a lot of agenda, just some t-shirts and free play, so overall it was a super easy party. The best part was that Payton was actually aware that it was her "special birthday"...as she liked to call it. I caught her singing Happy Birthday to herself in the mirror 3 times that day. It was adorable. I feel like she has grown up so much in just the past month! She talks so well and expresses herself almost perfectly. I have to admit this is my favorite age. I love when children become "kids" instead of babies/toddlers. Minus the ginormous tantrums, this is when the fun of being a mom really begins in my eyes.

A few of the kids were not into having their picture taken, so they are missing here. I'm sure I was agro with trying to line them up. I probably scared them away...poor things! :)

Luckily, Jared got to hang around for a few minutes before heading off to work. I got a picture, so I feel it was a success!

We had some good ol fashioned cupcakes for dessert. As I brought the plate down for Payton to blow out the candle I had a swarm of 6 little kids blowing on me. It was pretty funny.

Laura came to help me out. Jared had to go to work, so without her I would've drowned. She is a true friend!

Kai had school during the party, so he was so excited to come home and give his sister some love. Of course, he had to get her some pink "girl" legos for her present. The best part was that he gave it to her then proceeded to put them all together. She just looked at it and said, "Good Job, Kai!" It was priceless.

Happy Birthday, Payton! We love you so so much!

Pics with Lisa!

2008-11-19T14:11:00.001-08:00

We had the opportunity to have our pictures taken by my good friend, Lisa, and let me tell ya... She is awesome! Here are just a few (ok about 15) of the moments she captured. She was so fun to work with and I'm amazed at her talent. How do I know so many talented people? It's crazy!

Um, please don't mention to Jared that I put this kissing one on here. That might embarrass him. :) But, hey, I love this picture. It pretty much sums up how crazy I am about this guy. I couldn't resist sharing it cause that is just how I am. Sorry, Babe!

Thanks, Lisa, for taking our pictures and doing such an incredible job. I could not be happier with them. All of you out there should check out her photo blog, too. Her link is under 'lisa and derrick' on my sidebar! You won't be sorry.

Halloween - Lots of it!

2008-11-03T14:22:00.000-08:00

This year was FULL of Halloween festivities! We started the holiday off with our ward Trunk or Treat. It was fantastic and very chaotic...for me. All the running around, and where are my kids, and say Trick or Treat Payton!, etc. was a lot for one night! Our ward did a great job, though, and they deserve an applause. Kai and Payton had a wonderfully exhausting time!

Here we have Payton freaking out because, apparently, she is deathly afraid of masks, painted faces, costumes and Halloween in general. This was her in the middle of her B-line to the back door! I had to stop and take a picture of her, though. People must have been thinking, "Camille, help your child, for goodness sake!" But, I had to get that shot. I can be relentless, what can I say?!

hunk o' burnin' love anyone???

The night before Halloween we FINALLY got ourselves and our poor deprived children to the pumpkin patch. These days Kai knows far too well that there are fun rides, games, and bounce houses to be had at the Laguna Hills Pumpkin Patch (all $4 for each ride). There is no way we can go there and not spend about 50 bucks. That is why we strategically went to the pumpkin patch at the Town Center. There are only a couple bounce houses there, so not too much to choose from...hence, saving some cash on WAY over priced pumpkin patch activities. I mean, seriously, that is robbery!

I was trying to carry Payton up the steep bounce house slide and it was challenging. Kids were running up past me and throwing my balance off. I thought me and Payton were going to go flying back down and fall on our faces. Scary! I like how Jared was just watching and taking pictures of us despite the fact that I looked like I was struggling. A good shot at whatever the cost, I guess. Ah, a man after my heart!

That night we (and when I say "we" I mean Jared) carved our pumpkins. It was fun to watch and I was, as always, impressed by Jared's skill. While Jared was cutting the top off the pumpkin Kai said, "Wow, you sure are strong, Daddy!" Amen, Kai!

The only job really safe enough for Kai to do was to scrape out the seeds. Unfortunately, he thought the pumpkin guts smelled worse than Payton poop. SO, he forfeited that job. Later he complained he didn't get to do anything and watching was boring! Nice!

Finally, Halloween night came and we headed over to the Roney's for some good, old-fashioned Trick or Treating and delicious dinner. Payton proved to be a cautious Trick or Treater and made Jared carry her the whole time. And, Kai....well, he decided he didn't want to wear his Red Power Ranger costume (what a waste, but I'm over it) and just held a sword and wore his p.j.'s. He is classic.

Patience and Reagan always host amazing get togethers and we were so grateful to be a part of it. Thank you so much for the great night. We had so much fun!

Tagged... 4 X 4

2008-10-21T06:58:00.000-07:00

So, I've seen this tag on a few blogs and then I just saw it on Laura's. Well, I thought it would be fun, so here it is! We actually don't have all our pictures in "folders"...they are all just in one big one. However, I do have some grouped in "albums" for whatever reason. SO, I opened up the 4th one and here is the 4th picture. This picture is from Feb. 20, 2007 - Payton's 1st birthday. How sweet is that face? It is crazy to me how time just flies and she is already rounding her 3rd birthday (well, in 4 months).

Ok, this has nothing to do with that tag, but this was the next picture and I had to show it! I felt bad leaving Kai out of the little trip down memory lane. This is from the same day and I think he is probably the cutest little guy ever!! I'm biased, but I just love these faces!!!

OK, I tag whoever might read this. Come on, it's fun!!!

Payton is awesome!

2008-10-01T06:57:00.000-07:00

I don't think I really need to explain why I love these pictures, do I ?! There are just so many reasons...

honesty...

2008-09-11T16:38:00.001-07:00

Today when I picked up Kai I told him that I missed him so much. I asked him if he missed me, too. He said he did. Then, we were off to pick up Payton. Once we were all in the car and driving away I told Payton that I missed her and asked her if she missed me. She smiled (I took that as a yes). Kai looked at me with a sad look and said:

"Mommy, when I was having fun today, I DIDN'T miss you. I didn't want to tell you that before because I didn't want to hurt your feelings. But, that is the truth!"

I started to laugh and told him that's ok and it was totally normal to not miss your mommy if you are having lots of fun. This kid just keeps getting more and more adorable!

Some milestones for Kai and Payton (and Mom). . .

2008-09-05T22:06:00.000-07:00

As everyone already knows, school started this past week and that means that Kai has begun Kindergarten. He has been looking forward to this all summer and was so excited to put on his new Batman backpack and head over to Oak Grove Elementary. I had butterflies in my stomach all morning just knowing that this was really it. I realized on his first day how much I really didn't want him to be gone every day. I know, I thought I was going to relish in all the free time, but I actually felt bad that he was going to miss out on our time together. Huh! Kai was totally awesome and was so proud walking into his class. He was so cute ... I couldn't stand it! Luckily for me, this first day was more of an orientation, so I got to hang out for the short hour class and help him look around.

The room has a bunch of tables that are called "centers". One of the centers was for building blocks. Kai built this cool contraption and said, "Look, Mommy. It's the temple!" I thought that was so sweet. Then, he added a few more things to it and said,"Actually, it's a spaceship!" CLASSIC!

Payton started her first day of Preschool on Thursday. I was so excited for her. Well, we pulled up to our beloved Cottage Preschool and she got out so happy. I know she thought that we were just dropping Kai off like we had in the past.

Kai was even walking her in to add to her confusion. So, we walked in, then Kai started heading for the front door to leave. It was about then that Payton realized she was staying and we were leaving. She wasn't too hip on that idea, let me tell you.

Sadly enough, I only add a small window to take pictures because Kai needed to be at school in 10 mins. So, this is how we left her. So sad!

The week has come to an end and it's been great. Kai has really done well, and only got a tiny bit weepy when I dropped him off this morning. He started to cry and then quickly sucked it up and said,"I need to wipe away these tears!" It was heart wrenching cause I knew he wanted to be brave and grown up. It brought tears to my eyes for sure.
The best part of it all (and probably one of the highlights of my motherhood so far) was after school when I picked Kai up. He was so happy and had the best day. In the car he said, "Mommy, I was sad when you left cause I wanted to go with you to Costco, but do you know what I did to feel better? I dreamed of your face and you were smiling. And your hair was blowing like it is now (the AC was on high in the car) and it made me feel better!" No joke, he said that!! Tears rushed in my eyes and I couldn't help but laugh a bit because it was one of the greatest things I've ever heard him say. How sweet is this boy of mine?!

I can't believe he is 5!!! ( 8.25.08 )

2008-08-26T14:31:00.000-07:00

I cannot believe that Kai has turned 5. Where has the time gone? I'm sure all you mothers know what I'm talking about. With kids "the days are long and the years are short". That is one of my favorite sayings that , funny enough, I heard on some reality MTV show. It really has stuck with me, though, because it is SO true! I feel like Kai is growing up so fast. I love seeing him develop into an actual person, but all too soon he won't think snuggling, kissing and hugging me is cool. How sad is that?

Anyhow, yesterday we had a little field trip for his birthday celebration. Along with 3 of his cute friends, Jared and I took Kai to Boomers for some bowling and miniature golf. What fun that all was. And, with well-behaved children like Spencer McClendon, Connor Ek and Garrick Foth you can't go wrong. They were all such good sports and had a blast. So, here are some pictures from the big day. I'm sorry that there are a lot, but who can choose just a few with cuties like these? I sure couldn't.

Jared giving the boys a few bowling tips

Kai getting a strike (w/ a bit of help from me)

Whoo HOO!!!
High Five, my man!

How cute are their bowling shoes? At one point, Garrick asked why we had to wear the special shoes. I simply answered, "Cause they look cool, of course!"

Just a couple of the golfing cause my camera died right about then. Seriously, though?!!

The rest of these are at home. After lunch at Boomers, we headed home for some play time, cupcakes and opening gifts. Kai could not wait for that. He got some great things from his friends. Thanks, Moms!! Kai was thrilled.

Payton got home just before naps (Patience was AWESOME and watched her while we were at Boomers. Thanks, P!) and dived into some needed cupcakes, followed by love for her brother. They are so cute together. I love it!
AND Finally, Jared got home from work and Kai got to open the gifts from us and his grandparents.
It was a perfect day and Kai is already asking how many days until he turns 6. Sorry, dude, it's a while!!
p.s. Kai doesn't wear pants at home very often. Sorry about the T-shirt/ undie look. What can ya do?!

FHE at Doheny...

2008-07-30T15:56:00.000-07:00

On Monday we ventured down to Doheny to have a little FHE and it was great. My sister in law, Andrea (also known as the Profancik family), do this a few times a week, so we thought we would tag along for some family fun. Let me tell you, it was fantastic. They brought pizza, cookies, soda and surf boards...pretty much all the ingredients for a blast. Jared has wanted to take Kai out surfing since he was born, so this adventure was way over due. The kids had a blast playing in the water, spending time with cousins and eating like kings. We love every moment we get to spend with our family. I have been so lucky to gain such great family through Jared. I can't even begin to describe how awesome the Bunkers (& Profanciks) are! Anyone who knows them knows they are incredible people. Here are just a few pics from our outing...
Payton loves pizza. Can you tell?
Owen, Kai and Avery...do kids get any cuter?
Jared, Payton, Brian and Iris
Baby Iris - this is the youngest Profancik. Isn't she precious?
Payton and Avery. P is so in love with Avery. She is an attentive cousin to Payton and we love it!

Kai's first time on a surfboard. I loved this moment!
There is just something about Jared in a wet suit / rash guard...I love it!
Beautiful Andrea and Me!

our little GRAD!

2008-07-01T20:23:00.000-07:00

This is about 2 wks overdue, but here he is. . . (drum roll, please) . . .

presenting Kai Samuel Bunker...Cottage Preschool Graduate - class of 2008

What a proud day for me and Jared. Kai has been in preschool for 2 full years and it's almost time to head over to Kindergarten. I can't believe I will actually have a child in elementary school. That is crazy. The fact that I can still remember my own Kindergarten just trips me out. Anyhow, we are so proud of Kai and all he's learned. He loves school (once he's there) and has done so great. We'll miss our Cottage Preschool so much!

After their grand entrance to the traditional "Pomp and Circumstance", Kai sat with his legs crossed...just like his Daddy does. Things like that make me so happy.

After the ceremony, everyone went outside for some treats and chit chatting. Each Grad had their own little cupcake with their picture sticking out of it and a class ring. Too cute. As usual, Kai ate the frosting off and was over it!

Kai with his proud Dad.

Me with my cutie pie Kai. What more can I say about this kid. He is totally awesome in every way.

Afterwards, I took the kids to our favorite...Frosted Cup...for some needed fro yo! I just thought this picture of Payton is funny. She's starting to pose for me with a cheesy grin these days. I'll take it. She used to purposely avoid me with the camera. That wasn't so fun!

ok, and this is just a shot I took of Payton later that day. I mean, are these the most rockin' pair of legs EVER? I might be biased, but I just love em!

Silly Payton...

2008-06-23T18:42:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite primary songs to sing to the kids is "I Love to See the Temple". It's always been the sweetest song to me and it has always made me misty every time I hear it/sing it as an adult. So, of course, I sing it to Kai and Payton with the hopes it will be one of their favorite hymns, too. Anyhow, a few months ago, while singing this song to Payton, she just got up and started to run in circles. I was like, "OK, it's more of a reverent song, but do what you want." Now, every single time I start to sing it she stops whatever she is doing and starts to run in circles with a big smile across her face. I've sung other songs to her to see if she'll do the "jig", but she just stares at me until I'm done. But, without fail, when I sing "I Love to See the Temple" she runs in circles. Last night I got it on video. She is too funny. Take a look...
disclaimer: for some reason this video can take FOREVER to download so you can watch it. It seems to be working better but, if this happens to you press play for a second...then pause it and give it a minute to completely charge up! Sorry. Does anyone know why?

JACKPOT!!!

2008-06-16T18:31:00.000-07:00

Today is my 7 year anniversary of wedded bliss with Jared. And, man, did I ever hit the Jackpot! You know when you are growing up and you daydream about this perfect guy who will whisk you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? Well, I really feel that I found that in Jared. I know I'm cheesy, but I think the world needs more cheesiness, eh? Seriously, from our very first date I knew I had met someone unlike anyone else in the world. He is always kind, always giving of himself, always humble, always willing to listen, and always letting me know he loves me. I love that he only has eyes for me and I can always see his concern for my feelings. He always puts me first even when he has worked all night and is worn out. I could go on and on. Oh, did I forget to mention he is the sexiest man alive? I don't want to forget that! ;-}

And if all that wasn't enough...
Jared is an incredible father full of patience. When I have had enough and when the day is getting the best of me, Jared comes home and quite literally saves the day. Kai and Payton adore him and think he is "the biggest and strongest" man in the world. I don't blame them for thinking that cause he can do anything! I could not think up a better Daddy for my kids. I feel such comfort when I think of their lives and all the love and attention they will get from their Dad. That is priceless.

Our love-children! What beauties!!!

Thanks, Babe, for being the perfect man for me and for wanting to marry me. I still can't believe how lucky I got and how lucky I am to have you! You have me completely Whooped!

Hello again!

2008-06-11T18:03:00.001-07:00

Well, hello again!
It's been a while since I felt motivated to do a post. I'm just lazy about it, really. I swear, if it didn't take so long for my photos to upload I would do this way more often. Anyhow, I just sat here for a while and uploaded quite a few. So, get ready for a butt-load of pics! :)

We've been to the beach a bunch and have been really enjoying the beautiful weather. I'm so grateful to live so close to the beach. It's so nice to have a low cost, fun hearted, tiring activity that we can do as a family. I'm obsessed with Crescent Bay in Laguna Beach. I thank all the friends who keep going there with me. Anyone else who wants to come hang out with us there would be fantastic!!!

I came downstairs the other night and found Kai and Payton sitting on the couch like this. Payton is really into sitting on Kai's lap these days. Kai loves it, too. I am really lucky that these two get along so well. Sure, they have their moments like any siblings, but on the whole they are very affectionate. What more could a mom ask for?

While in Utah for Jared's brother's wedding, we all went bowling. Good ol Fat Cat's in Provo. The kids loved it and I loved seeing them in these bowling shoes. How cute that they even had a small enough size for Payton. Groovy!

Here is just a handful of favorites from the big wedding day of Trevor and Whitney. How sad that I didn't even get a good one of them. It was freezing that day and they were off getting their pics taken. It was such a busy day. I forgot all that goes into a wedding. Lots of family, lots of pictures...it was great! (I hope the friends we didn't get to see while in Utah will forgive me. It was such a whirlwind trip and we were so bummed we didn't get a chance to visit with anyone. )
Here we are in our hotel room. We all stayed in the same room, which went surprisingly well. What made it work was that we all went to bed at the same time...about 8:30pm. That was Jared's bright idea which I scoffed at at first. Of course, he was right...as usual! This picture is especially funny to me cause my kids have their sippie cups regularly glued to their faces. I think in the years to come this will be one of those really "Oh I remember that" pictures that I look at when they are all grown up.

how funny is this picture? Can you tell by the look on Jared's face how loud Payton was screaming? I mean, that girl has some serious vocal cords. She was not holding back one bit!

And, last but NOT LEAST, are just a handful of some of the pictures we had taken by our good friend, Leah Wright. This girl is one of the most talented photographers I have ever seen. She really has an eye for it and such a cool style. It was hard to pick just a few to post cause all of them are so unique and fun. I am telling you...if you are EVER in Provo you should make a date with her. You will be thrilled. You can see more of her pictures on her blog. Her link is leah and geoff on my page! Thanks, Leah, you are incredible and we are forever grateful to have these!

Sunny Sunny Days!

2008-04-26T15:33:00.000-07:00

Today was a good, old fashioned HOT day at the beach. Let me tell you, the sun was burning down. Unfortunately, the wind was nowhere to be seen. We headed down to Salt Creek today and it was great. I have to admit that Salt Creek is a challenge for me cause that hill kills me and the beach is so huge. It was absolutely beautiful, though! It ended up to be nice and hot and we are all rosier than before we went. We were lucky to have the Decker's hang out, too. Kai and Payton had so much fun playing THE ENTIRE TIME in the water w/ Bennett (thanks Wade for hanging out down there with them while Jared was surfing!). They were loving it, that's for sure. We had a blast and now we are all going to take a nap! Hope everyone had a great day and was able to enjoy the sunshine!
What cuties!
Wade dug an impressive hole for the boys to play in!

Cheese!!!!!!!!
Payton found her own hole to lounge in.
She loved chasing the waves...back and forth, back and forth...

this picture is awesome cause it looks like Sara and I are missing some swimsuits. Stop it...we are just wearing some strapless attire!!!

Patience's Shower!

2008-04-04T16:52:00.000-07:00

Last night was pretty P's baby shower! This is her 5th little baby and 4th girl in a row. But, darn it all, if that girl totally still deserves a night of honor!!! She is one of the hardest working, most giving, tries to help everyone else, is always there to listen, did I say giving, selfless people I know. All of her friends completely agreed that we should "shower" her w/ affection. Melissa was so awesome and totally organized a sweet night out. So, last night we all headed out to THE LOFT at THE MONTAGE RESORT in Laguna Beach. Let me say, that place is pimp and the food was amazing. It was such a fun evening out with friends and we laughed a lot. I am one to go to bed pretty early (as people like to tease me about), so around 7:30-8pm I was getting pretty giddy and the giggling was a plenty. Suddenly, I heard Summer say:

"Jon Bon Jovi just walked by!"

Me: "What you said?" (as Kai or some of my other friends kids would say)

Summer: "He just walked by! I'm texting Bryan right now"

We all got our phones right then and text our husbands thinking it was all way too cool. He slowly walked by our table about 4 or 5 times to go to the restroom. That guy pees A LOT!!! Anyhow, some of the girls were relentless and found him coming out of the restroom, snagging a quick pic with the rock star. LUCKY! It was all very exciting.

It was such a fun night and I am so glad we got to go out and make Patience feel adored and special cause she is! Congrats on your pretty baby #5!!! I love you, P!

Easter Family Fun...

2008-03-24T16:45:00.000-07:00

Well, it seems as though Easter has come and gone and we have the roll of photos to prove it. This holiday is probably one of my favorites for picture taking, I must admit. All the colors and themes, what not. With much anticipation, I laid out the kids Easter wardrobe. I warned Jared that even though we may be rushing off to church, I would be taking pictures of the kids out front before we left. Getting "the shot" isn't AS important to him as it is to me, so I had to prepare him that I would be relentless. (I have this theory that if you admit you are being annoying then it's more forgivable.) Anyhow, the kids were finally dressed and ready to go and I started snapping away. My one wish was that Payton would just look at the camera already. Every time I was ready to take the perfect pic she would notice me and immediately turn away, run away, turn around, etc. What is up with that?!! I mean, really...it was exhausting. Kai, on the other hand, would smile and cheese it up for me. Gotta love him! In the end, I didn't get the picture I had imagined in my mind... Kai and Payton holding hands, grasping their baskets that were neatly filled with eggs, smiling with their eyes open and looking right at me, all the while standing in front of some lush green trees and bushes. The funniest part about that scenerio is that I really thought I was going to get that shot. If I look on the bright side, I most likely got one of those elements in each of the 25 pictures I took. :) It was a great day and we really had a great time with our family. Hope everyone else had a great day, too, and maybe got the picture they were trying for!

this one sums up the few minutes we had before church to take that "perfect photo"
and the other part of the duo...

This one is one of my favorites

Avery and Iris...too cute for words
me and my love bunny. Or am I the love bunny in this picture?

Payton with her cousins at Grandma nad Grandpa Bunkers. Kai had decided he'd had enough of picture taking at this point. Can't blame him - he did his duty.

and the Bunker's go bowling...

2008-03-17T16:14:00.000-07:00

I know that I've not been the ideal blogger these days, but our little outing to Saddleback lanes was post worthy, I decided! Kai has been asking if we could go bowling a lot lately. Obviously, I am not going to do that adventure without Jared's assistance, so we had to wait for an available Saturday to go. Luckily, this past one was totally free (no extra working for J) and we were off...

We set the game up to be Kai against Payton since we knew we would be helping them so much we would get our fill. It was a pretty exciting game. It was neck and neck most of the time. I have to say that Kai is pretty good for a little guy. He even got a couple of strikes. Sure, we had those bars up to help with gutter balls, but he still rocked it! Payton, on the other hand, needed a lot more help. Turns out she was more into dancing to the groovy tunes playing on the loud speaker. Our time ended with Kai playing himself. To him...a perfect way to play a game. All in all, it was a success. The kids had fun and I got to capture some memories with the camera.

Jared getting all artistic on me
Payton shaking her tail feather...
Never get sick of that grin
...Chillin'

ok, this one was kinda set up. How cool does that look though!
Kai being very proud of his muscles
you could look at this one two ways...Daddy helping his baby OR that's a nice bum on that guy!
one of Payton's many victory dances
S-T-R-I-K-E!!!!!!!!!

Oh, the perks of living where we do...

2008-02-12T15:50:00.000-08:00

(Yes, I know it's been a long time since I've posted anything. SO, instead of playing catch-up, I think I'll just start with today!)

It seems as though Summer has gotten here a few months early. There really isn't anything greater than being able to go to the beach in the middle of February. I always say that the mortgage that sucks us dry every month isn't just for our humble little home (w/o a yard). It's for the amazing area, beach, weather, etc. SO, Today was a beautiful 80 degrees and without skipping a beat we were off to Shaw's Cove! It could not have been any nicer (minus the construction going on behind us)!

First of all, are these not the cutest little bums you've ever seen? These pics were actually taken while we were "trying" to clean-up. While stripping the babies of their sandy bathing suits...a photo opp occurred!
Payton & Kai
Dallin Ek, Payton Bunker, Peyton Roney, & Kate Wilson
Peyton R, Payton B, & Kate

I really think we live in the greatest place on earth! I love this town. We first got to the beach around 10:30 am and it was perfect. Cool, but sunny. It ended up getting pretty warm and I do think I am a bit pink now. I'm not complaining...I love it!!
All the kids had such a blast running and playing in the sand and sea. I am really enjoying the fact that both my kids can play and I can just sit back and watch...most of the time. It is so fun to see them with their friends in this environment. I love that their childhood memories will be filled with days like this one.

Payton had a death grip on this watering can! She loved carrying it around. Good thing for me it made for a cute prop!
Madison Roney & Kai...too cute for words these two are!

Dallin and Payton...I think they are dating!
(this one was from Saturday, but I had to throw it in there)

Connor Ek & Kai. Best Buddies!

Thanks to all my fun girls and their kids for making today so great! (we missed you girls who couldn't make it, by the way!!)

love history tag!

2007-12-15T18:44:00.001-08:00

SO, I just read my sister-in-law's blog (famillederuggles.blogspot.com) and thought this was a fun little tag. I thought I'd do it and tag some of you out there so we can all learn a tad more about our beginnings and such. Here is goes...

WHERE DID YOU MEET YOUR HUSBAND?
After hearing about the mysterious Jared Bunker through my dear friend, Hillary Gardner (now Rothey) - I finally met him while I was hostessing at ROSA'S in Provo, UT. He actually came in on a date with a friend of mine. I was the one who showed them to their table, etc. I had already seen him at a party a week before (and thought he was probably the sexiest guy I'd ever seen), so I was on heightened surveillance of him, if you will. I kept going up to their table to talk to my friend. Or, interrupt their date as much as possible - depending on the way you look at it. I remember thinking he was very attentive to me. It was awkward, but I liked it.

WHAT WAS THE FIRST THING HE SAID TO YOU?
My friend introduced me to him when they first came in and he said, "Oh yeah, my sister told me about you!"
His sister, Lauren, had mentioned that she wanted to set us up. I was like, "Yes, and she mentioned you as well." ...awkward!

WHEN WAS YOUR FIRST DATE?
Our first date was a couple of weeks later. Sept. 14, 2000 to be exact. We went shopping for food, went back to his house and cooked together. We made halibut and steamed veggies. It was pretty good, too. After that we went in the spa. That was my idea cause I wanted to check out his hot bod. And,boy, was it HOT!

WHEN WAS YOUR FIRST KISS?
Our first kiss was exactly one week later...Sept. 21, 2000. Jared had taken me out to Mongolian bbq and then to his house to watch "Blairwitch Project" (scary). He drove me home and the "tension" was high so I just kept talking and talking. I could tell he was going to kiss me, so I seriously could not shut up. Finally he said, "So, I've been wanting to kiss you for a while, but I don't want to interrupt you!" I laughed and then just went in for it. I might have let my hand slide a bit on his tush, but that is a little racey for this blog. Hands down, though, best kiss I had ever had!!!

our very first pic together. Can you tell we are both embarrassed?

LONG/SHORT COURTSHIP/ENGAGEMENT?
We dated for 5 months and were engaged for 4. ( I would have married him the week after our first date cause I knew I wasn't letting this one go. No joke there!) Jared had snuck into my apt. while I was at school. When I came home there was a dozen roses that were numbered with a note attached. I read each one counting down to one. When I got to #1, he came out with one white rose and did the whole on one knee, etc. I was so shocked and excited that I don't think I even said yes. I just tackled him and, well, smothered him. I didn't see it coming cause we hadn't really talked about getting engaged really. Jared and I both agreed that we thought things like that should be a surprise. It worked...I was surprised!
self portrait before I got home!

WHERE WERE YOU MARRIED?
Oakland, California LDS Temple - June 16, 2001. It was really beautiful and really hot that day. Loved every minute!

WHERE DID YOU SPEND YOUR HONEYMOON?
We zoomed off to Kauai for 9 days then camped in Mexico for 3. Talk about extremes. It was fantastic in every way.
in Kauai...hiking and making out...what more do you do on a honeymoon, eh?

Well, 6.5 yrs later and the love is still going strong. As cool as I thought Jared was then, I had NO IDEA what an amazing and genuine man he is. I could go on and on, really! I'll just leave it at this... I am LUCKY!

So, now it's your turn to tell me (and everyone else) your little love story. Come on...just do it. If you read this you are tagged!

a trip home for thanksgiving...

2007-12-10T17:40:00.000-08:00

me, jared and kai relaxing after the big meal
melissa, me, melanie and our dad stopping for a photo opp

payton, cousin conner, and kai enjoying the beautiful day

Yes, it has been a while since I have posted anything! I tried a couple of weeks ago when I first got back from our trip to Sacramento, but I had technical difficulties, so I just gave up for another couple weeks.
Anyhow, me and the fam packed up EVERYTHING we needed and headed north for a long weekend with my family. It was a last minute decision and a great one. We got there the day before Thanksgiving and stayed through Sat. afternoon. Quick, but wonderful. Honestly, when we got back everyone asked me how it went and my answer always was,"The kids slept GREAT and so our trip was great!" Isn't it funny how your life revolves around how well your kids ( and, in turn, you) sleep? Well, Kai and Payton get an A+ for sleeping habits while in Sac. and the rest of our time there was fantastic, too. I got to see all but one of my brothers (sorry Todd and Gabe...I was bummed) and all my sisters (there are 9 of us in all). My parents were so gracious and we are so thankful that we got to see them and we didn't destroy their home!

a perfect day...

2007-11-15T16:37:00.000-08:00

We all know how hot it has been the past few days and the thought came to me," Why am I not at the beach?" Obviously, I was out the habit and not in the "beach going groove". So, last night I was talking to my lovely friend, Laura Ek, (also my beach going partner) and mentioned that the beach would be fantastic. She concurred and before you know it...we were sitting at Crescent Bay being warmed by the November Sun! Let me tell you...it was wonderful. The kids had a blast playing in the sand. They were even excited by the, may I say, freezing cold water.
It could not have been a more perfect day. As we walked down the hill Kai said,"Mommy, the ocean is sparkling!!" When I looked up (cause I was really concentrating on not letting go of the stroller and sending Payton to her demise) I saw the clear and shiny water. The sky was so clear that the water was reflecting it back. It was awesome. The beach had about 1 person on it before we got there, so we basically had our very own private beach today. It was so fun! Life is Good here!

Cutie Pie Kai...as usual!

Kai and Payton were loving the cold ocean. They were so exhilarated by it...it was cool!
sippy cups in full effect here! Classic...

A more positive outlook on watching too much T.V. ~

2007-11-08T13:47:00.000-08:00

Finally, we are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel with this virus. It hasn't been too bad, really. I need to count my blessings cause Kai and Payton really have been great kiddies! So, I mentioned that during this whole thing there has been a mass amount of T.V. viewed in our home. Luckily, Kai's favorite show right now is "WORD WORLD" (PBS - 10:30am - M-F) and it is a wonderful show! It spells and sounds out EVERY word in the story and every character is made up letters. Not to mention the fact that the little songs on it are kinda catchy! That is always nice. So, here are some pics of Kai writing the words that were featured on the particular one he was watching. The best part is he LOVES to practice and see how many words he can write. He keeps saying, "Look Mommy, I can read and write so many words!" He does learn alot at his great preschool, but he didn't know how to write this before he watched it on "Word World". Gotta love it!

What have my kids been doing the past couple of days? ...

2007-11-05T11:51:00.000-08:00

Well, a few days ago Payton and Kai came down with a case of "Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease" and, let me tell you...It's lame!
It all starts with a fever (which just Payton got) that lasts about a day, then they break out in sores (or blisters) in their mouth, on their hands and on their feet. A child can have all or just a few symptoms, so it can be hard to detect in some. Well, Payton has ALL the symptoms and is miserable. Kai, on the other hand, seems ok...just a tad tired and only a couple blisters. (Yes, I know what you are thinking...NASTY!) Payton has it bad with lots of sores on her hands and feet and in her mouth. She didn't eat or drink for about 2 days and it was making me nervous. Her diaper was dry for an entire day. Scary, eh? Jared, being the amazing dad he is, sat and fed Payton water through a syringe...one tsp at a time. It took about 45 mins. She only drank it cause she was interested in the syringe. So, basically, my kids have been watching the 'ol boob tube WAY more than I like (and I usually allow a good amount, what can I say?). But, this thing is really contagious, so you have to stay home ALONE...isolated from the real world. Poor babies, and poor me, frankly. Hopefully, none of your kids will get this cause it is NO FUN!

Halloween festivities & pictures galore!

2007-11-01T13:37:00.000-07:00

Well, it's a tad late, but last Friday we had our "TRUNK or TREAT" with our ward and it was a great time for all. We were inside for a while and we didn't see Kai that entire time. He was off running around the cultural hall with his buddies. He was literally dripping in sweat when we finally got a hold of him. Payton had the best time playing on the stage with the other kiddies. At one point she was just dancing around with some random skeleton arms in her hands. How fitting, eh? After a tasty meal, we all headed outside for the trunk or treating. It was already getting late, so that didn't last too long which was OK by me. All in all, it was a success!

Halloween night was especially fun. We started the evening at a little Halloween get together at the Roney's. Delicious food and great company always makes for a great time. To my surprise, Kai had told me early in the day that he didn't want to get dressed up AGAIN (he had a school party that day,too) and he had enough candy,so he didn't want to go trick or treating. Well, after the Roney's party and seeing and playing with all his friends, he changed his mind (of course) and wanted to go out trick or treating after all. At that point, I was looking forward to just going home & relaxing, passing out candy, etc. So, I had to change back to action mode and get him ready. Luckily, his costume was a no brainer. We all went out, caught up with the gang, and hit a few houses. It was fun and I just didn't have the heart to not go! Now, we have WAY too much candy, but that's how it goes, eh?

TAGGED!

2007-10-30T13:45:00.000-07:00

Ok, Abi (abijoe.blogspot.com) "TAGGED" me today and it was fun to read her little facts. I really didn't know that stuff about her and it was fun. So, here how it goes...

RULES:
1. List the link to your tagger (like I did with Abi) and also post these following rules.
2. Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog - some random, some weird, etc.
3. Tag 7 people at the the end of your blog also leaving the links to their blogs
4. Let them know they are "TAGGED" by leaving a comment on their blog

THE FACTS...strange or not ~

1. I have a funny habit of rubbing material (preferably a satiny blanket) between my fingers. I always have it with me when I am at home, especially when watching TV / relaxing. I might have it on my lap now. I will never quit cause I really don't see why I should. I love it!
2. I knew I wanted to marry Jared after our first date. It was pretty much a blind date. Right after he dropped me off, I walked in and called my friend, Hillary, and told her I was going to marry him. (ps. she's the one who set me up with him...)
3. I can remember anyone's birthday if you tell me once (maybe twice). You'd think I was good at math, but I suck!
4. After changing my major 5 times...I graduated with a BS in English...not because I love it, but because it came the easiest to me and I just wanted to finish already!
5. Pumpkin Pie is my #1 favorite thing to eat! (w/ cool whip...of course)
6. I sucked my thumb until I was 8. No buck teeth, no braces!
7. I have 3 tattoos...Yikes - can you say rebellious stage?!:)

YOU ARE TAGGED:
christa ~ steveandchrista.blogspot.com
raquel ~ famillederuggles.blogspot.com
sara ~ wadeandsara.blogspot.com
leah ~ thewrightfampics.blogspot.com
laura ~ ekfam.wordpress.com
elizabeth ~ lizandrobjudd.blogspot.com
katie ~ steveandkatiehoffman.blogspot.com